rather than contacting Marc or his folks, would you consider trying one of these suggestions? here are some ideas, compiled by the extended family:
for Marc:
- you can pray (or have a positive outlook)
- you can send Marc audio books (particularly historical fiction, biographies, and books about or set-in southeast asia)
- or gift cards from iTunes (or email him credits from the itunes store) or from audibles.com
- you can call or email or facebook and let him know that it's okay if he doesn't respond back if he's too tired
- visiting this site and leaving him notes and comments
- taking a picture of yourself or your family or friends with your rally hats and add them to the rally-hat gallery (email them to rallyformarc@gmail.com with names of people in photo)
- if you are curious about his medical bills, talk to aunt wendy and uncle pat at 916-408-4774.
- you can spread the word about this site as a great way to help everyone stay connected with the "news" and updates about marc's treatment.
- you can send gas-cards for the many trips to and from San Francisco for marc's treatment
- while prepared food is not helpful because of the complexity of dietry restrictions, gift cards to local grocery stores, restaurants, or Starbucks are really helpful!
- phone calls can be very supportive, especially when you communicate that you understand if they are unable to call you back.